I'm not using social networking in the traditional or popular sense. I use some tools for gathering information I want and some tools to automatically push out stuff I do. The exception is Facebook, where I have a small network of friends and family, most of which aren't into my hobbies anyway. So here is my social tools game plan:
Public Sites - All information that I consider of a public nature, stuff I don't mind everyone in the world seeing will be published in one place, my own website. There are so many online tools and social services to post your stuff that it is over whelming. After reviewing many of them and considering the only way to truly have control of your content (and monetized it) is to run your own site. I post everything on the blog first, then trickle stuff out through other "social broadcasters". After going through many different Content Management Systems (CMS) over the years as a Internet Engineer, I've settled on WordPress here at this point in time.
Social Sites - To keep in touch with friends and family, Facebook seems to fill that niche nicely. I can post items to friends and it stays within my circle of friends. It combines a lot of features of the many other social networking sites, but the point of me using Facebook is to use it for stuff that I don't want to be public, but want to keep my family and friends apprised of. Facebook can also pull from my public site, in case my friends don't really visit my public site.
Auxiliary Sites - Then there are web services and sites that are somewhat single purpose. Twitter, FriendFeed, Picasa, Google Reader Sharing, etc. I've found that these services have limited usefulness for me to push out content on; but rather I use them to gather information. For example, sending out tweets on Twitter doesn't do anything for me, but I can follow someone who pushes out useful nuggets of information I can use. Since I joined Twitter to read other Twitters, I can send out tweets, but I rarely do.
FriendFeed is another aggregator of social networks that I joined in order to follow others. So I will check in on FriendFeed to watch what others in my profession are doing. I did setup FriendFeed to pull from my public website blog, so others can see what I'm posting, but posting directly using FriendFeed is of limited value, since they go nowhere else. [[UPDATE: 7/2009: FriendFeed can now push your posts to Twitter. FF can look for posts from even more sources. It's like FF could be the consolidator of all your activities around the web (social, photos, videos, digg, etc), and then post them on FF and copy them out to Twitter, the two popular broadcasters. Using the appropriate bookmarklets on your browser tool bar, can be very powerful and makes lots of noise.]]
I'm not sure yet what the value is of sending anything to Twitter is until I have a following. However following some key people who you trust to feed interesting morsels of informational bits may prove valuable. Also check out TweetGrid. The best part of Twitter I like is the interface to the SMS system, whereas tweets are send to and from your cell-phone texting service.
Anyway, here are my respective social sites:
My FriendFeed Page (Open to anyone)
My Twitter Page
My Facebook Page (Viewing limited to Friends Only)
Abandoned Sites - I've tried out some other services and decided to abandon them in favor of just posting to my own blog. Any of the free photo publishing sites like Flickr or Picasa and such are wonderful for people who can't publish their own site. But with great photo plug-in support now available for WordPress, I hardly need them. I had previously installed Gallery 2 on my site, but it is very complicated to administer and even the visitor side experience was overly complicated. So a simpler user interface but powerful admin interface photo album plug-in is what I went with.
I had Drupal previously installed on this site also, but it was overkill for what I needed here. Now WordPress has a lot of features that now can perform many of the things that more expensive packages did. I am also thinking of converting ScripturesSay.com to WordPress since the publisher of Miraserer has abandoned future product development of that CMS.
Yahoo's Delicious bookmarking network is a great service. It integrates nicely into FireFox and allows you to keep your bookmarks online and available to you on any computer through syncing functions. In addition your bookmarks are categorized and can be marked private. I had a long talk with myself over abandoning Delicious. I would still recommend it for many people, especially those who need bookmark syncing between computers. But since I have started using a personal wiki system (a future post coming) I've pulled all my bookmarks from this service.
The real usefulness of Delicious is seeking out popular sites when looking for stuff. The theory goes if everyone posts their bookmarks to their service, you'd have a resource of just really good websites. That's good for me when looking for things to write about or post to a blog.
The downside is that it is yet another service to keep maintained, when I really want to consolidate my toolbox. So I now post links I think are useful to others on my blog, instead of Delicious. Otherwise bookmarks that are just for my use are kept in my personal wiki.
As noted I am working with a personal wiki system to house my bookmarks, I'll be writing an article about that soon. Thanks for listening.